Tania the guerrilla

She died in a hail of bullets on the run with Che Guevara. But who was this captivating and mysterious Mata Hari who was buried next to him?

Does your partner mean it?

So they say they don't want children or never want to move to the country. Should you believe them or will they change?

Do I need protection during oral sex?

One reader says they are confused about the perils. Is it a health hazard? What is the most effective protection?

My boyfriend wants doggy style sex in front of a mirror

My boyfriend likes to have sex doggy-style in front of the mirror. Both the position and the mirror make me very uncomfortable. Should I tell him?

Phil Collins pays £25m for divorce

It was third time unlucky for the Genesis singer as trend emerges for foreign brides to bring divorce cases in Britain

Millionaire puts divorce deal online

Gary Dean decided that the way to silence critics was to post the details of his wife’s £3.7 million settlement on the internet

• Credit crunch raises divorce rate for wealthy

• Dividing assets is the real issue in divorce

I fantasise about murder to save my marriage

A woman in her fifties speaks of the torment caused by her deceitful but charming 72-year-old husband’s affair with a carer

Sibling incest: what you think

Last week a reader admitted that she had incestuous relationship with her brother. The piece provoked a worldwide response

Now women really are on top

Candace Bushnell has taught everyone from single women to cinema money men far more than the finer skills of socialising

Touching shouldn't always mean sex

Every caress needn't lead to intercourse, says our relationships expert